Some decisions in life are difficult to make, and especially when there is a point from where you do not know where, how and when to proceed.When such a point in life arises ,all you need to do is just calm down your mind and think, and by thinking i mean, real thinking. At times we make mistakes, the worst of all, and tend to think and ponder over them again and again. We think as to "why i did this?" or "why did i make such a silly mistake?".Well ,i understand that dealing with mistakes and overcoming it's impact and effect is NOT easy! But , as i have told you in my earlier blog(https://sanaidafernandes.blogspot.com/2019/03/life-is-about-learning-from-mistakes.html) mistakes,should be and in fact, are an essential part of growing up. Now, it's not that you can be a pro at once ,in forgetting things and going forward. It takes time, especially if you have had the habit for long.Remember, when you make a mistake, the prime thing to do is to first ACCEPT ,ADMIT and be totally honest to yourself and tell yourself that it's OKAY!!This ill be your first step towards attaining self confidence.
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
You are made to win.A person who has undergone a tough experience in life will always stand more CONFIDENT and above all will learn to BELIEVE in him/her self. Confidence doesn't come easily, especially when you have had feelings of inferiority and self doubt all your life! In math, for example there is a method called the TRIAL AND ERROR method. For those who may wonder what it is, it is a method where you keep trying to solve a problem by trying and of course ,sometimes failing, but yet trying again and again.One should use this method to attain confidence unless it comes naturally.Confidence can be seen as a counterpart of SELF BELIEF.Believing in yourself is very ,very,very(i have said"very" thrice as it is that important.)essential and can be seen as a stepping stone to success.BELIEVE , that you can achieve anything cause we are made (each one of us) to be extraordinary and not MEDIOCRE.
LOVE YOURSELF
We all are different and each one of us has various talents but the real task is to ACCEPT yourself the way you are. This includes all your strengths , your weaknesses and your flaws. We are not meant to be perfect, but we are meant to contribute to this world by being ourselves. Love yourself and people around you will automatically see the beauty that you hold. You can also transmit the positive vibes to the people around you. Loving yourself and confidently presenting yourself (the way you are) to the world , is your first step towards success , prosperity and confidence .
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